The past couple of days have been HORRIBLE for me. I have had people tell me I need to "move on" and "get over" my son dieing. I have had a friend lose her 19 month old son, and watched my sisters dream to be pregnant crash. First off let me say to those of you who think the mothers that have lost a baby need to move on, We WILL NEVER "move on" or "get over" our children. We are supposed to want our children back. It isn't like it's a parent or grandparent. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BURY THEM. They are the past. A parent should NEVER have to bury a child. Children are the future, not the past. They are supposed to bury us, and mourn our loss, we are not supposed to bury them and morn their loss. If you have ever lost a child you know how I feel. And this may sound mean, sorry if you get offended by it, but, YES a miscarriage is a loss, that I know, and I know it is painful. But please don't tell me you "know" how I feel because you had a miscarriage early in your pregnancy. Because YOU DON'T you did not have to hold you child and watch them slowly die. I am sorry that you had a miscarriage, but I promise it is in NO WAY harder than carrying a baby to term and watching them die. ANYWAYS...A former friend told me yesterday, that I needed to MOVE PAST Seth dieing, that he and his wife had a miscarriage, and the loss is not as painful as I put it out to be...Excuse me for saying this..BUT to hell with you Shawn. you have NO CLUE. Needless to say, we do not talk to them anymore. Sorry formaking you listen to all of my ramblings..but I needed to get it out. Please continue to pray for our friends Jamie and Travis as they bury little Ben tomorrow, at the young age of 19 months. We l0ove you Jamie, Travis and Anna!!